The False Value of First Impressions

The False Value of First Impressions

The more new people I meet, the less I believe in the validity of the first impression. First impressions can be perfectly orchestrated and controlled. Practiced and perfected based on social nicety and experience. What a flawed science a first impression really is. They are the shallowest way to know a person and the most [...]

How to Create an Attractive and Effective Online Dating Profile

How to Create an Attractive and Effective Online Dating Profile

Online dating has its benefits and its pitfalls, but there sure are a lot of us Bumbling, Matching, Hinging, and Tindering these days. So, if you're gonna be out there searching for digital love, you might as well put your best foot forward. Or your best pic and tagline. Whatever. Because it's getting harder and [...]

Why You Don’t Need a Perfect Body

Why You Don’t Need a Perfect Body

I'm becoming de-sensitized to six packs. Yeah, I said it. I see the abs. They're there. I see them as an accomplishment and they're great, but they're just not what they used to be. Granted, I live in a city that glorifies an ideal body and I'm on the Instagrams flicking through seemingly endless pictures of intensely fit [...]